你不甘平庸,却一直平庸

时间:2019-07-30 来源:www.feijiazhuang.com

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穷山恶水的地方,能让一个人变得特别的孤勇。

矮冬瓜从小就住在大山里,读书要翻过一座大山,干农活要爬小半个山头,大山里经济一点也不活跃,自给自足,大山里观念也落后,婚配嫁娶后就是日出而作日落而息的生活,很传统也很章法。

矮冬瓜有一个酗酒的爸爸,是单亲,按照矮冬瓜的描述,爸爸一喝酒精神就开始不正常,常常对矮冬瓜施家暴,身体的淤青,血痕比农忙时要多得多。

即便这么残暴,矮冬瓜爸爸却有着可逆的观念,与全村相悖,鼓励他好好读书。爸爸说,这世道,唯强才能改变家境。

结果一喝点酒,对矮冬瓜的好,全都溅在血肉模糊的呐喊里。

矮冬瓜特别想摆脱这种凌虐,屁股开花的时候抱着书本儿趴在土墙的窗台上,含着泪望向大山以外的世界。于是拼命的读书,拼命地想要逃出大山,全村人都把他当个笑话,也看不起矮冬瓜一家人

金榜题名的那个夏天,大学录取通知书是村长递过来的,一句好听的话也没有说,背着手扭头就走了,亲戚朋友们也闭门不见。

什么是211?什么是专业全国前三?一个赔钱货,都没有锄头,背篓,牛羊值钱。

矮冬瓜去读书的时候对谁也没说,而那个酒鬼爸爸凑足了一切的开学费用钱交给矮冬瓜的时候只说了一句话:最好的自己是跟过去相比,真正成功的自己,是一定比过去活得好。

有人说,平庸的人生,就是从接受自己的平庸那一天开始的。

一开始我是不信的。

XX人性的奇怪圈子在这里:我经常觉得我站在外面,你可能是走进起重机组的鸡。

我常常觉得自己不愿意平庸,但我一直都很平庸。

当我毕业时,当校长给我们一个文凭时,我问我:

死亡和平庸,谁更可怕?

然后他给了我两个答案:

一个是死亡是可怕的,它可以立即结束一切,并立即让你灰尘,甚至平庸。

第二是平庸,死亡只是为了夺走你唯一的生命,平庸可以无数次杀死你。

我当时选择了第一个。那时,我觉得没有什么比死亡更可怕了。现在我改变了。死亡的终结是在未来,平庸就是结束一个人。

为什么那些行业精英愿意聚集在大城市的中心,就像北京的文化,上海的金融和杭州的互联网一样。

那里有竞争,有机会在这里展示,在那里你可以更新你的知识,并接触行业中最前沿的概念,在那里你将不被允许接受平庸。

是的,知识和想法只是工具,但人才是最终目标。

有些人在那里,有些人真的只是嫉妒。人性就是这样。只要你为自己留下一点空间,他就不会从世界上撕下一个突破。

停滞不前也是平庸。

王小波的话对我来说特别令人震惊。

I was twenty-one years old that day, in the golden age of my life. I have a lot of extravagant hopes. I want to love, want to eat, but also want to become a cloud in the sky in a moment. Later, I realized that life is a slow process of being hammered. When people are getting old, they hope to disappear day by day, and finally become like a hammered cow. However, I did not foresee this when I was 21st birthday. I feel that I will survive forever, and I can't hammer me.

Life is fierce? Whose 20 is not a living dragon? They are all swaying, and they are all frustrated and want to condense into the life they want.

If the past is not good, there is no reason to complain, it is that I am willing to be mediocre, willing to the status quo, not enough effort.

Once a person is awakened, one can live like a thousand horses.

Once a person can sleep, one can also overcome the fear of being overwhelmed.

Enlightenment has been gone, and those who know it can be chased.

You have no choice in the past. You will face countless choices in the future. You will not choose not to lose, nor will you choose to win. You just give yourself a chance to redeem, redeem your own conscience, and redeem your own tomorrow will be better.

I hope you don't forget, don't choose mediocrity.

xx